You are thinking to visit our swingers event for the first time and have a number of questions?

We have posted the most important rules and FAQs

What goes on at BVS party?

Social get-togethers in safety and privacy, Warm welcome, a laugh at some light hearted entertainment from the hosting staff, Music, Dancing, meeting Chatting have a drink. No nudity or sex in the social areas

Separate rooms away from the social area are available if you meet anyone you may wish to play with in private or in an open room. or just play yourselves in a private room.

Your drinks at larger events are looked after by our tended Security bar (bring your own alcohol. standard soft drinks supplied free).

Security Staff for storage of your valuables

Trained  relationship councillor at all events

Trained first aid staff

 What does  not !! go on  

 Pressure to play / No disproportionate groups of males/ no casual clothing (smart or theme dress code)

 and certainly no keys in the bowl !!!!

    1. What is the cost ?  

    The costs are the Blue Vevets arrangement  fees,  venue, food, hosting service, soft drinks and sundries for the evening and are included in the enrty fee.  Events are costed  per couple  and at most events some limited accomodation is provided at  extra cost on a  first booked basis. Fees will vary  dependant on standard of the facilities hired and extras such as breakfast on stayovers and will be available from event details.

Please note

 Hosts and Staff are NOT employed to provide any sexual favours to members and will play only after working hours and of  thier own choice. ...........

 Let us know your likes and dislikes please include your area in correspondance

We will post some of your comments on the comments page

  2. May anyone become a member?  

      Any couple , single female or male may become a member. We have no waiting periods . We welcome as a member all those persons       who conduct themselves in  socially correct manner although restrictions to certain events are made such as dress codes.,  Photo Identification  wll be required at enrty to ensure security and safety , personal details will not be used or distributed to any third parties and will come under the data prtection act. Any known persons with negative feedback on adult sites will be screened and may not be admited to the venues.

 The management will always reserve the right to refuse reservations without explanation. 

All events are a balanced attendance of male, female and couples unless otherwise stated

 Anyone found to be soliciting will be barred outright.

     3. Do we have to make a reservation for a visit to your club?  

 Yes    In normal instances it is  necessary to make a reservation due to limited space of events and to ensure a balance of attendees.

   4. What is the dress-code for a swingers event?           

    Suitable smart or evening clothes are greatly appreciated at our events. Under "dress-code" we will define any dress code for a particular  event. In order to facilitate contact with other couples, it is better to leave the ‘usual’ underwear at home and add an extra dimension to undergarments to titillate the fancies on any party evening....  

   5. Are we obligated to observe the "dress-code"?  

At a specific Events usually at 22.00 hrs  a "dress-code" may apply . You are then expected to don lingerie or the specific dress code of the event. The more exotic or different will get you noticed , not chastised!!

  6. Where then do I leave my valubles?  

You can safely store your valubles with the event hosts who will provide safe storage with your entry code noted  and returned when required  

      7. What is expected of us when we visit the club?  

     The only thing that we expect is that you have a enjoyable time and behave in a socially (liberal) acceptable manner. There is absolutely no obligation to participate in the activities of the event. It is entirely up to you whether you take part or not. The fact that you are visiting a swingers event/party evening does not mean that you can have sex with all and sundry. At a swingers event, respect for  other people is of the essence and the ladies are in essence in control of the evenings activities.   

At Blue Velvet events we place great emphasis on the social side of the evening, meeting mixing and enjoying the company of other liberaly mature people. 

 It must be strictly observerd that not only consent is agreed by persons enjoying erotic activity but of their partners  whether their partner is  participating or not!!!

Please remember you attend as a couple and the emphasis on pleasure for you both

     8. Room Rules     

    Some rooms may be themed at blue velvet events and have particular rules noted on the doors.

    An 'Open room' is open  to spectators and to join in if invited , doors will normally be left open during the evening.

    A 'Closed room'  is not open to spectators and should be left closed unless marked as vacant. Couples and groups should   restrict  time within a closed room to approx 30 min to allow other couples to enjoy themselves.

      9. What types of people visit your swingers club?  

    People such as you and me are guests of the club evenings and events. People from all backgrounds and walks of life are most     welcome and enjoy a more liberal attitude to sex and socialising.  

      10. What is the average age of the guests that visit your swingers club?

    Guests of all ages visit our club   who can tell and who will tell  not us..

    Age restricted events may be run on occassion .

      11. What’s the choice in music at the parties?               

    We play a mix of popular and dance music in the main party area  and  fun rooms have themed or relaxing music.

     Music may be themed depending on a specific Event.  for example a 70s evening

      12. What if we happen upon acquaintances?  

     This is, in principle, irrelevant. You can best react to this in a normal informal manner and address or have a chin-wag with the respective persons. You are both at the club with the same intentions and who knows, new contacts may develop....  

       13. What’s the gen on safe sex?  

    In all our "erotic" areas there are plenty of condoms available. The use of condoms is of course entirely your own responsibility. It   is customary that they are used by all who are not within a long term relationship.  

       14. What if there is something we don’t want to do or don’t see  another couple with who we would like to have fun?  

     A rule in the blue velvet events is that "no" is amply sufficient in order to indicate that something is not appreciated.  If you are approached in an erotic area and you do not wish to go along with that suggested, then a push with the hand is usually enough.

Anyone  who persitantly  fails to refrain when asked not to participate will be immedietly removed from the club by the hosts . We have found that along with this our members all ensure each others safety within events in a very "family" orientated manner and offenders are quickly identified and will be banned from all future events.. if you are a known offender you will quickly be identified .

       15. Finally...  

       Ensure that you are both clear as to what you can expect to participate with in the club. Agree beforehand all those matters that are relevant. What shall we do and what we shall not. Keep an eye on each other so that you may both have a pleasant evening and do not participate in anything without full concent of your partner.  

Do not break your own rules !!!